Polyamory Supportive Therapy

Are you…

1 )Considering opening up an existing relationship, and/or wondering if an open relationship is right for you?

2)Plagued by the fact that one of you is more open to the idea than the other.

3)Struggling with jealousy and insecurity in your current poly relationship.

4)Needing support in living an “alternative lifestyle” which deeply reflects who you are?

5) Suffering from living in a world that does not understand you?

6)Having difficulty communicating with your partner/partners in a calm, loving way?


Polyamory, sometimes also referred to as “ethical non-monogamy”, or “consensual non-monogamy” is at its essence the ability and/or desire to love and be in relationship with more than one person, while being completely honest about that with all others one is intimately involved with. When done well, it can allow for a fuller expression of sex and love than is usually available in more traditional relationships.

The struggles in a polyamorous lifestyle usually involve issues of communication, insecurity and jealousy, fear of losing the loved other, and an inability to feel in control in the usual sense that people in more traditional configurations might feel.

Polyamory, in some ways is the last frontier of coming out.  There is probably no group of people who are venturing into a world that is so  deeply misunderstood.  The culture that believes that monogamy is the only way and cultural oppression.  Monogamy

I am a licensed psychotherapist with over 28 years of experience working in the mental health field. My work is body experience oriented with an emphasis on communication that is heard and understood. My work is also filled with humor, curiosity, and compassion. I am committed to assisting those with gender variant identities in finding love, compassion, wholeness, and as full a life as possible. I work relationally with individuals, couples, groups, and other relationship configurations.

Psychotherapy and Sexuality

Sexual Orientation

Sexual Compulsion and Addiction

Female Bisexuality

Male Bisexuality

Relationship Counseling


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