

Infidelity
For example, one partner may feel misunderstood or ignored by the other. Loneliness may cause one of the individuals to look outside the relationship for comfort. One case of infidelity may lead to another as one partner seeks revenge. Whatever the situation, affairs are an indicator that the relationship needs to change. Sometimes a couple decides to stay together and other times the couple needs to end the relationship. They decide what to do. If the decision is to separate, I help them do so with integrity and leave them with the chance for a compassionate ending.
dissolution of a relationship is more painful than a death. Great care needs to be taken with people in this transition. The present culture often does not give a person the space to grieve for a long period of time. It may take many months to years to heal from breakups. They often create a major crisis in an individual's life. The ramifications of divorce or dissolution of Civil Unions cause extra stress, because they include many more legal problems. My greatest hope is to get both partners into a therapy process that will encourage completion and a amicable breakup. Example of emotional infidelity in my San Francisco therapy practice
was sharing a level of intimacy with another that had never been expressed in her own relationship. This escalated to the point that both people put their primary relationships in jeopardy. Though the process was very painful, she was able to communicate with her partner. They started couples therapy and are currently working through issues that have not been spoken about in years. It enabled my client to grow rapidly in understanding of herself and express what she needs in her life. 415-834-1755 or email me at: info@goldengatecounseling.com Mental health appointments available in my downtown San Francisco counseling office, your office,or your home. Golden Gate counseling Center serves the online community, as well as communities in San Francisco, Oakland, Berkeley, Richmond, Pinole, Santa Rosa, San bruno, Daly City, South San Francisco, Burlingame, Sausalito, San Rafael, and Santa Cruz. We service the counties: Santa Clara County, Contra Costa county, Marin county, Sonoma county, Monterey and Mendocino counties. We provide couples counseling, counseling for the gay lesbian bisexual transgender and intersex community. We deal with addictions to substance abuse, drugs, alcohol, sex addiction, and debting. We also offer family interventions, family therapy and relationship counseling |

| Randy Weled Marriage Family Therapist |
| people with these issues for 19 years. Most of the solutions to our problems lie within, however it is also important to teach skills and bring awareness to insights I have been helping .that come |
