Gay sex addiction, Gay porn addiction, cheating, LGBTQ

I am so sorry, I won’t cheat again…

Do you Spend Hours On Grindr or the internet looking for hookups?
Are you Cheating on your Partner even though you are in a “Monogamous Relationship”?
Do You Frequent Adult Bookstores, Bathrooms or Parks?
Do You Find Yourself Watching More Porn than you want to?

If you have answered one of these questions yes:  
You are probably dealing with Gay Sex Addiction.  There is hope, and there is help. Call or text for help now 415-519-2150.

There is nothing morally wrong with having anonymous partners.  Most of us can have multiple partners without any consequences. Many gay men
will have more sexual partners in one year then their  straight counterparts  will have in a life time.
Many gay men have met their long term partners in bookstores, bath houses,
parks, restrooms and online sex sites.  Many of us of  had no other choice
than to frequent these places to meet other gay men.

What makes me the right Therapist?  I have been sober for 20 years.

I suffered from compulsive sexual behavior for over 25 years.  I had multiple experiences in bookstores, bathrooms, parks and bathhouses.  I cheated on all my partners, watched 1000’s of hours of pornography, experienced phone sex and cybersex.  I hooked up with other men anywhere and everywhere that I could.  I spent countless hours fantasizing about sex, spent almost all my free time “on the hunt.”

What makes a gay sex addiction different than a straight sex addiction?

Gay men have much more access to anonymous partners.  It is acceptable within our community.  Most gay men do not have to pay for sex.  Gay men hook up.  Most straight men never get beyond their computer.

Now With Access to Phone Apps, hunting for new sex partners has become easier, it truly is a click away.  Unfortunately though, it has led to a more addictive type of behavior.  It has taken internet hook-ups to a whole new level.

Some gay men will be able to go to these sites and never have a problem.  Other
gay men find themselves spending hours going from site to site to find a man, they
may boast about having sex with thousands of men; they find themselves
spending hours online looking for hookups or looking at porn; they keep secrets
and cheat on their partners.  They may lose sexual interest, because the images
online are much more exciting.  If this person is you, you may want help right
now!

Call or email today: 415-834-1755 or info@goldengatecounseling.com

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